What gets in the way of your life feeling effortless and exciting sometimes?
Is it money? Is it your health? Is it some relationships or lack of a relationship? Is it not being clear enough about your passion and purpose? Is it something else?
We all have stuff that gets in the way of our life feeling effortless and exciting sometimes. When we find it challenging to discover what it is and let it go, this stuff can begin to weigh on our happiness, our success and even our health.
But what if there was a way to discover and let go of this stuff as soon as it came up or, even better, before it even started?
What if life is supposed to be effortless and exciting almost all of the time?
What if any time life feels less than effortless and exciting it’s because some easily identifiable stuff is getting in the way of how it’s supposed to be? And what if this stuff was completely within our ability to discover and let go of quickly and easily and as soon as we did, life instantly began to feel effortless and exciting now at an even greater level?
What if the job of all our challenges in life is to help us discover and let go of the stuff in the way of how life is supposed to be so we can experience even more of the effortless excitement that IS who we naturally are? And what if we could learn how to more easily and quickly participate in this natural process and live a life that continues to feel and be better than we could have imagined before?
What if any problem you have or could ever experience was caused by this one simple formula inside your head?
A problem = any time who you think you have to be in a situation doesn’t match up with who you most want to be in life.
Think about it for a second. Think about any problem you have ever had or are now experiencing. Doesn’t it really come back to this?
You might think that a problem is caused by a circumstance – not enough money, time, love, clarity etc, but if you look a little deeper, you discover that any circumstance is just something to deal with. It only becomes a problem for you when you think who you have to be in that situation might limit who you most want to be in life.
What if the solution to any problem that will ever come up for the rest of your life is:
Make sure every role you choose to play matches up with who you most want to be as a person.
If this seems exciting, try out these four simple steps to quickly discover and let go of any of the stuff that is or could get in the way of your effortless excitement and to make sure every role you choose to play matches up with who you most want to be as a person.
Step 1) Discover what’s in the way:
Ask yourself and answer: “What’s happening in this situation that is causing or adding to the problem?”
Step 2) Discover the role you think you have to play in this situation:
Ask yourself and answer: “When this happens, who do I think the situation is wanting or demanding that I be?”
Step 3) Discover how the role is not matching up with who you most want to be:
Ask yourself and answer: “How do I think that having to be this in this situation might limit who I most want to be in life?”
Step 4) Redesign your role to match who you most want to be:
Ask yourself and answer:
A) “If things were perfect, how would I most want to be in life. What qualities would I have or still have?” List them all.
B) “What is the most exciting role I could play in this situation that would guarantee me being (all the qualities you listed above)? Who do I most want to be in this situation now?”
You might be amazed at how quickly a situation that felt overwhelming minutes before can suddenly feel more effortless and exciting after you match up the role you choose to play with who you most want to be. You might also discover a whole new range of exciting choices you never noticed before as you live with your new awareness.
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