Confidence in a situation is nothing more than the awareness that you are the one who chooses the labels for yourself and for what you are experiencing.
Confidence in life is nothing more than the awareness that you are doing this every moment in every situation.
Want to feel more confidence in a particular situation?
Find a way to become more aware that you are the one choosing the label for yourself in the situation and then find a better label.
Here’s a question that can help. While you are in the situation, ask yourself: “How can I label myself as the best person ever now?”
Worried you might come off as conceited if you do this? You won’t because your version of the best person ever is not conceited (or else you wouldn’t be worried about it).