Perfection is discovered not created. Ongoing happiness is the ability to notice how everything is always perfect no matter what happens. Suffering is not noticing everything is perfect now. Happiness is the skill of noticing what is. What is, is always perfect. Suffering is noticing what isn't. What isn't is rarely if ever perfect. Noticing requires no effort, so happiness requires no effort. What requires effort is refraining from effort until it doesn't require effort to r

The purpose of suffering is to refine your understanding of what you are. Suffering is only here to point you away from believing anything that's not true about yourself so you can discover more of what you actually are. Suffering is the most powerful pointer directing you towards discovering what is actually you. The end of suffering is recognizing that this is suffering's job and that there is no higher purpose that you have than knowing what you are better. With this disti

Always getting everything you want is a result of making what you want most be being good with whatever happens. When you make your number one priority to continually improve your ability to be good with whatever happens, then whatever happens will always be helping you achieve your number one goal. No matter what happens, you will either get the thing you knew you wanted or you will get a deeper knowing that you are good with whatever happens. In either case, you are always